Here’s what the woman had to say to wives who have been cheated on:

“Many might label me as a homewrecker, but I see myself as a ‘band-aid’ for troubled marriages.

When your husband is hurting, I’m just the temporary relief he seeks. I’ve been with ‘Big Bear’ for seven years now.

He’s a successful surgeon, married for 11 years, living in a villa in Chicago with his wife and two kids.

‘Big Bear’ even bought me an apartment just three kilometers from his home. I don’t see myself as ‘the other woman,’ especially after so many years together. I have a knack for turning difficult situations into opportunities.

So, I thought I’d offer some insight to married women who want to understand why their husbands stray. Believe it or not, it’s not just about sex.

Men crave more from their wives—they want them to be a mother, a friend, and a therapist. They long for the woman they fell in love with before the wedding—the woman who truly captured their heart!

‘Big Bear’s’ wife is a wonderful mother to their children, but she struggles to be a friend, a therapist, or the nurturing ‘mother’ her husband needs. Surprisingly, most of my time with ‘Big Bear’ isn’t about sex.

We listen to jazz, drink wine, and talk about the news. I treasure every moment with him, knowing that it will end when his wife decides to change.

When he leaves, I’ll just find another ‘wounded’ man in need of a temporary band-aid.

If you want women like me to disappear, consider my advice.

But one more thing: this only applies if your husband married you out of love.

It’s crucial to understand why he chose to marry you,” the mistress wrote in her open letter online.